Our pastor has had very profound messages on blessing the past 2 Sundays. You can listen to them here.
The point was this - If you are a Christian, you are blessed by God no matter what your circumstances may look like. To put it another way, the sun still shines even when you can't see it. And blessing doesn't just mean everything will go your way. It means God hand is upon you at all times.
It's been a message I really needed. Check it out if you get a chance.